Pink Kink

Consent is the foundation of kink—but it’s not the finish line. In this episode, we dig into why “they said yes” shouldn’t shut down deeper conversations about safety, risk, and responsibility. What happens when a scene is so dangerous it could affect more than just the people involved? And who, if anyone, gets to decide what’s too much? Let’s talk about consent, community standards, and the cost of turning recklessness into a punchline. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Being a Top isn’t just about giving orders or holding the crop—it’s about holding responsibility. In this episode, we’re digging into what it really means to lead with care in kink. From medical safety and emotional well-being to ethical decision-making and community accountability, we’re calling in all Dominants, Tops, and handlers to step up and do better. We’ll break down why “they consented” isn’t always enough, why jokes about dangerous play can harm more than reputations, and how to actually earn the trust your role demands. This one’s packed with reflection questions, real talk, and actionable tips for showing up as the kind of Top your bottom deserves. Because power isn’t the reward. Responsibility is the requirement. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Feeling drained by your kink life? In this episode, we talk about what burnout looks like in the BDSM lifestyle, how to spot the signs, ways to prevent it, and how to come back from it. If kink is starting to feel like a chore, this one’s for you. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

What happens when abuse is disguised as kink? In this episode, we unpack the disturbing trend of powerful people—like Diddy and Marilyn Manson—using BDSM as a cover for coercion and control. We break down why that’s not kink, how it harms the community, and what ethical BDSM actually looks like. Spoiler: consent isn’t optional. National Sexual Assault Hotline - 800-656-HOPE Kink Aware Professionals - https://www.kapprofessionals.org/ Red Flag Radar Workbook at PinkKinkBoutique on Etsy https://fetlife.com/groups/149395/posts/11127573

When do you tell someone you’re kinky? On the first date? After sex? Six months in? In this episode, we break down the pros and cons of revealing your kink at different stages of dating, how to know when you’re ready, and tips for having that conversation with confidence. There’s no one right answer—but we’ll help you find yours. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Who says you need a Caregiver to enjoy Littlespace? In this episode, we’re busting the myth that Littles need a Daddy, Mommy, or CG to feel valid. We explore the beauty of peer-based Littlespaces—where Littles support each other through creativity, connection, and care, without formal power exchange. From craft nights and snack rotations to setting healthy boundaries and avoiding burnout, this episode is packed with ideas, emotional insights, and real talk for Littles looking to build their own village. Because Littlespace isn’t about who’s in charge. It’s about who makes you feel safe, seen, and silly. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

What makes a kink “extreme”? And why does that word cause so much harm? In this episode, we’re breaking down the myth that certain kinks are more real, more intense, or more valid than others. Whether your play leaves bruises or just leaves you breathless, your kink counts. We’ll explore the hidden hierarchies in the kink world, why emotional intensity matters just as much as physical, and how to stop comparing your edge to someone else’s. Because in kink, there’s no ladder to climb. You’re valid—at every level. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Inspired by a post on FetLife and real conversations with kinksters, this episode explores why both Dominants and submissives need clear, affirming rights in BDSM. We walk through the Submissive’s Bill of Rights and the Dominant’s Bill of Rights—not as rules, but as tools to support autonomy, respect, and consent in power exchange. Because no matter your role, your needs, boundaries, and voice matter. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

CG/L dynamics are deeply personal and emotionally rich. They can offer comfort, structure, play, and healing—but only when built on a foundation of consent, communication, and respect. From bottle feeding to bedtime routines, from emotional support to power exchange, caregiving in kink is never one-size-fits-all. And it definitely isn’t just about being sweet and cuddly. In this episode, we’re digging into what healthy CG/L dynamics really look like, how to avoid common caregiving mistakes, and why consent, boundaries, and mutual respect matter more than cute rules and nap times. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Get ready to crack into the world of Spankos! In this episode, we’re joined by the legendary Miss Chris—Professional Disciplinarian, BDSM educator, and all-around badass—to take us deep into the Spanko community. We talk about what defines a Spanko, the unique appeal of spanking as a kink, and how this corner of the kink world builds trust, connection, and sometimes very sore bottoms. Miss Chris shares her journey, her insights on the psychology of spanking, and some of the common misconceptions about Spankos. Whether you're curious, confused, or already clutching your favorite paddle, this episode is packed with wisdom, wit, and plenty of cheeky fun. For more information about Miss Chris and the Spanko Community check out https://www.missschris.com/ Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Who comes first in a D/s dynamic? The Dominant? The submissive? Their needs? Their wants? In this episode, we’re digging into the D/s Hierarchy of Needs—a framework that helps make sense of how to prioritize care, safety, and power in a consensual exchange. We’ll explore what qualifies as a need versus a want, how to tell the difference, and why getting this balance right is essential for a healthy and thriving dynamic. Expect real-life examples, a dash of humor, and a few spicy truths kinksters don’t always want to hear. Want to know who really comes first? You’ll have to listen to find out. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

We’re sharing our strong (and spicy) opinions on the all-too-common idea that Dominants should “break” their submissives. Hint: we’re not fans. We’ll dive into where this harmful mindset comes from, why it shows up in kink spaces, and the real damage it can cause. Plus, we’ll talk about what ethical, empowered D/s actually looks like—because submission isn’t something to destroy, reshape, or control. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

We’re turning up the voltage and diving deeper into electro play! Dara’s absolutely buzzing to explore the three electrifying styles—sensual, sadistic, and sexual—and share how each one charges up your scenes in totally different ways. From teasing tingles to shocking surprises to hands-free O’s, we’re breaking it all down with new tips, tools, and zappy scenarios. This isn’t just a kink—it’s a whole circuit board of fun. Plug in, tune in, and get ready to find your favorite frequency. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

It’s time to get wet and wild—literally. In this episode (affectionately known as The Wetpisode), we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and controversial kinks out there: watersports. This is a topic that brings out very strong opinions, and we get it—it’s not for everyone. But that’s exactly why it deserves a closer look. We explore the emotional, physical, and psychological appeal of watersports by hearing directly from kinksters who enjoy it. They share what draws them to it, how it fits into their play, and why it’s about so much more than just pee. Listen with an open mind—you might just learn something new about a kink that’s often judged without understanding. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

We're back with another fan-favorite In The News episode, and this one is packed with deliciously kinky chaos. From a steamy music video dripping in BDSM visuals to articles diving into DD/lg dynamics, modern vampirism, and the age-old question—why are people so horny for monsters? We’ve got thoughts, opinions, and our usual blend of education and sass. Grab your headphones and your holy water—this one's a wild ride. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Dominance isn’t just about giving orders—it’s about leading with skill, intention, and heart. In this episode, we’re unpacking the essential tools every Dom should have, like clear communication, creative scene planning, emotional awareness, and the ability to check your ego when it matters most. Packed with real talk, personal stories, and plenty of laughs, this episode is your guide to leveling up your dominance and building stronger, more connected dynamics. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

BDSM is built on trust, knowledge, and negotiation—but it can never be 100% risk-free. In this episode, we explore why the word “safe” is misleading in kink, and why relying on it can create a false sense of security. We’ll dive into better frameworks like RACK and PRICK, share real-life examples of scenes where things went wrong despite being “safe,” and give you practical tools to approach risk with honesty and responsibility. Because in kink, it’s not about being safe—it’s about being smart. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Just because you don’t have a caregiver doesn’t mean you have to put your little side in time-out! In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to explore, nurture, and fully enjoy your little space—even when you’re flying solo. Whether you're between dynamics, intentionally unpartnered, or just figuring things out, we’ll share tips, activities, and affirmations to help you embrace your inner little. From building a solo little space to managing big feelings without a caregiver's guidance, we’ve got you covered. Because your little self deserves love, attention, and a whole lot of glittery joy—caregiver or not! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

In this episode, we’re tackling a phrase that makes our skin crawl: “non-consensual BDSM.” Spoiler alert—it’s not a thing. If it’s non-consensual, it’s not BDSM... it’s abuse. Full stop. Join us as we rant (with love), laugh through the frustration, and break down why this term is harmful, how predators use vague language to justify consent violations, and why explicit consent is the gold standard in kink. We’ll also spill the tea on a recent social media argument with a so-called educator who insisted the term was fine because “other people use it.” Yikes. This episode is a must-listen if you care about ethical kink, clear communication, and keeping our community safe. Because in BDSM, consent isn’t optional—it’s the foundation. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Kink is a vast and fascinating world, and sometimes, the most unexpected things can spark desire. In this episode, we’re diving into the wonderful realm of niche kinks—those unique, specific turn-ons that don’t always get the spotlight. From the allure of beards to the thrill of shaving play, we explore the sensory delights, psychological appeal, and creative ways people incorporate these kinks into their scenes. Plus, we touch on a few other lesser-known fetishes that might surprise you! Whether you’re curious, intrigued, or just here for the laughs, join us for another fun and enlightening conversation about the wild and wonderful world of kink. Tickets for the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit ➡️ domsubdynamics.com/rara Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!