The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast

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Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey. Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences. Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more. Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.

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United States

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Adult Content

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Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey. Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences. Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more. Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.

Language:

English

Episodes

Why I Have a Hard Limit on Electroplay — True Story

9/29/2025

#105 People think masochists will try anything… but I’ve got hard limits too. In this episode, I share the story of why electroplay makes me cringe, what happened when my teen mistook a new gadget for a toy, and how true trust in TPE means respecting boundaries. Tune in now and follow the show for more Dom/sub stories. ➡️ Free checklist of 50 kinks: https://domsubliving.com/checklist ➡️ Dom Sub Living newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup

Duration:00:15:09

Your First Dungeon Night or Munch? What to Expect

9/22/2025

#104 What actually happens your first time at a dungeon or munch? Do people really play in front of strangers? Or do you just stand there and watch?” In this episode, we're sharing what to expect, what to wear, how to talk to people, and spot red flags so you feel confident. Don’t risk looking awkward or creepy – tune in to learn how to make your first event a success. ➡️ Grab the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/104 Don’t miss your chance to grab The Kink Bundle — 30+ BDSM resources until September 24th! 👉 Visit kinkbundle.com now to grab your Kink Bundle before it’s gone!

Duration:00:19:44

The Real Cost of Waiting to Start Your BDSM Journey

9/15/2025

#103 Why is now the best time to start living the BDSM lifestyle? Find out on this episode of Dom Sub Living! We're addressing common excuses for delaying and sharing three factors that make this the ideal moment to start. Discover the potential risks you may not have thought about that could change the future landscape. Don't wait any longer to explore BDSM. Take action now and embrace your desires by starting your journey into the Dom/sub lifestyle! ➡️ Grab your free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/004

Duration:00:21:32

Inside Our BDSM Contract – What We Really Agreed To

9/8/2025

#102 If your idea of a BDSM contract comes from 50 Shades, we need to talk. 👉 Grab your free template at https://domsubliving.com/contract In this episode, I take you inside my real-life BDSM contract—what’s in it, what’s not, and the surprising clause that saved our relationship. Tune in to learn how to write a Dom/sub contract that’s safe, hot, and functional. ➡️ Download your free contract PDF: https://domsubliving.com/contract ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/102

Duration:00:26:07

The Future of Dom Sub Living and What’s Next for You

9/1/2025

#101 The podcast is changing! Does that mean less content? Nope. It means more real talk, raw stories, and deeper insights than ever. In this episode, we're sharing why the format is shifting, what’s ahead for the YouTube and audio versions, and exciting updates like the Kink Bundle and my upcoming book. Don’t miss it—subscribe and share! ➡️ Sign up for our newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup ➡️ Access our community: https://domsubliving.com/community ➡️ Join the All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess ✅ Grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at https://domsubliving.com/follow

Duration:00:19:34

100 Episodes of Kink: What I Learned the Hard Way

8/25/2025

#100 Think kink is simple? After 100 episodes, we're revealing 10 hard-earned lessons that go beyond floggers and fantasy. ✅ Subscribe and grab your free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap at https://domsubliving.com/follow From tackling judgment to finding community, discover truths that shape real D/s dynamics and mental health. Don’t miss this milestone episode of raw stories, freebies, and celebration! ➡️ Free BDSM Lifestyle roadmap: https://domsubliving.com/follow ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/100

Duration:00:31:18

DDLG 101: The Truth About Being a Babygirl

8/18/2025

#099 DDLG isn’t just cute outfits and bedtime routines—it’s a deep, powerful dynamic that blends nurture, structure, and trust. 💕 Grab your free DDLG starter list at https://domsubliving.com/ddlg In this episode, we're breaking down what being a babygirl, little, or middle really looks like, plus the differences between DDLG and DDBG. Listen now and join the conversation. ➡️ Free DDLG starter list: https://domsubliving.com/ddlg ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/099

Duration:00:16:03

5 Dom/sub Punishment Ideas I Love (and Hate)

8/11/2025

#098 Spankings aren’t cutting it anymore. 👉 Grab the free punishment list at https://domsubliving.com/punish In this episode, we're sharing 5 Dom/sub punishment ideas that actually work—yes, even for masochists. From writing lines to orgasm denial, we're breaking down what to use, when to use it, and why some punishments backfire. Don’t miss #3—it changed everything. ➡️ 30+ punishment ideas: https://domsubliving.com/punish ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/098 🎁 Enter to win a huge bondage bundle: https://domsubliving.com/giveaway/

Duration:00:19:06

Dom/Sub Secrets No One Talks About (But We Will)

8/4/2025

#097 Is kink your secret superpower? In this fun and fearless interview, Alesandra joins actress and comedian Amy Vorpahl to talk BDSM 101, living unapologetically kinky, and what it really means to be a Dom or sub in everyday life. Listen now! ➡️ Amy's website: https://www.amyvorpahl.com ➡️ Join Amy's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/amyvorpahl ➡️ Follow Amy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vorpahlsword/ ➡️ Free kink resources: https://domsubliving.com/free

Duration:00:44:32

Every fake dom does this.

7/28/2025

#096 If you're a Dom—or trying to be one—don't screw this up. 🎯 Take the free quiz: https://domsubliving.com/fakedom We're revealing the top 5 signs of fake Dominants, from skipping consent to using fear instead of leadership. You'll learn how to spot red flagsand what real D/s dynamic should look like. Doms (and subs), listen up! ➡️ Fake Dom quiz: https://domsubliving.com/fakedom ➡️ Dom Sub Training course: https://domsubtraining.com ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/096

Duration:00:32:22

7 Hidden Habits That Keep D/s Relationships Strong

7/21/2025

#095 Does your dynamic feel off? If your Dom/sub relationship feels stuck or stale, this episode breaks down the 7 hidden habits that keep real D/s dynamics strong — for years. From rituals and contracts to community and mindset, this is what no one tells you. ➡️ Join the All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/095 ➡️ Check out the All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

Duration:00:20:36

Most BDSM Teachers Get This Completely Wrong

7/14/2025

#094 Are BDSM teachers getting it wrong? ✅ Join the All Access Pass at https://domsubliving.com/allaccess We're exposing 10 harmful myths most BDSM educators still teach — from punishment-first training to ignoring a Dom's emotional needs. If you've ever felt like you're doing BDSM “wrong,” this is the truth you’ve been waiting for. ➡️ Join the All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/094 ➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/

Duration:00:27:23

Not Sure You’re a “Real” Dom or Sub? Listen to This

7/7/2025

#093 “Am I too new? Too awkward? Not ‘dominant’ enough?” If you've ever felt like a fake or imposter in BDSM, you’re not alone. We're sharing how to build confidence, stop self-doubt, and finally feel like a “real” Dom or sub — even without a partner. Tune in now to start owning your role with confidence. ➡️ Join the free bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/093 ➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/

Duration:00:16:00

How to Explore BDSM WITHOUT a Partner

6/30/2025

#092 Think you need a partner to explore BDSM? Think again. Learn how to build skills, rituals, and confidence as a Dom or sub—solo. Avoid beginner mistakes and prep for your ideal dynamic. Ready to start your journey? Join our free Bootcamp! ➡️ Free Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/092

Duration:00:17:25

Is Fifty Shades of Grey Really that Bad?

6/23/2025

#091 “I don’t make love—I f*ck. Hard.” 📝 Get your free BDSM contract at https://domsubliving.com/contract Is Fifty Shades of Grey really that bad… or are we just mad it opened the door for millions? In this deep dive, we're breaking down what it got wrong (and very wrong), what it got right, and why it still matters. Hit play and get ready to move beyond fiction. ➡️ Free BDSM contract template: https://domsubliving.com/contract ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/091

Duration:00:19:08

How to Train Your Sub

6/16/2025

#090 What if training your sub could feel more like bonding with a dragon than shouting commands? 👉 Grab the free “How to Be a Good Dom” Quick Start guide at https://domsubliving.com/dominant We're sharing real-world ways to build trust, create habits that stick, avoid common Dom mistakes, and adjust training styles for every type of sub. Strengthen connection, not control. ➡️ Access the free Dominant Quick Start Guide: https://domsubliving.com/dominant ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/090 🚨 Grab the Total Power Exchange Blueprint before the price doubles on June 17! → https://domsubliving.com/blueprint

Duration:00:21:36

A Look Inside Our Total Power Exchange Relationship

6/9/2025

#089 “I don’t play submissive—I live it. Every day.” 🔥 Grab your own TPE blueprint: https://domsubliving.com/blueprint In this behind-the-scenes episode, Alesandra from Dom Sub Living shares what a real 24/7 Total Power Exchange looks like—from morning rituals and daily protocols to mistakes, resets, and the small things that keep her dynamic thriving. ➡️ Total Power Exchange Blueprint: https://domsubliving.com/blueprint ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/089

Duration:00:17:34

What People Get Wrong About Total Power Exchange

6/2/2025

#088 Does Total Power Exchange mean giving up everything—or just giving with intention? ✨ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community We're answering the top 10 questions we get asked most about TPE, from burnout and boundaries to parenting, protocol, and sex. ➡️ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/088

Duration:00:23:12

10 Taboo Kinks: Which Are Normal vs. Truly Dangerous?

5/26/2025

#087 Are your darkest desires really that dangerous? 👉 Download the free checklist of 50 kinks at https://domsubliving.com/checklist We're breaking down 10 taboo kinks—from pet play to CNC to pregnancy—and ranking them from safe to seriously risky. Find out which ones are more common than you think—and which ones even seasoned kinksters get wrong. ➡️ Free checklist of 50 kinks: https://domsubliving.com/checklist ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/087

Duration:00:20:03

Raw, Real, and Kinky: Life Behind the Power Exchange

5/22/2025

#086 “Do you really live like that every day?” In this episode, we're sharing a special interview from the Kink Your Way podcast with Leann Herron. We talk about BDSM as a lifestyle, growing a kink business, breaking shame, and what it’s really like behind the scenes. ➡️ Check out 'Kink Your Way': https://kinkyourway.com ➡️ Explore our online courses: https://domsubliving.com/courses/

Duration:00:58:00