You Can Handle Anything!

I've been "stuck" wondering what to do to celebrate the 400th episode of this podcast. I'm glad I got unstuck. Enjoy.

In this week’s episode, hear an inspiring story from one of my students about the power of pausing—and how it can create real change. Plus, I have an exciting update! I’ll be taking a short break from the podcast for a few weeks, but something special is coming your way. Make sure you’re on my newsletter so you don’t miss the invite! www.shiragura.com

Ever notice how you react differently to the same behavior depending on who's doing it? Through a simple morning wake-up call, I discovered why I was ready to blame my husband for something my kid did—and what that reveals about our triggers. Learn how to pause before reacting and transform your response patterns, especially with those closest to you. A powerful episode about self-awareness, relationships, and breaking free from automatic reactions. www.shiragura.com

In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful story from a student who lost a significant amount of money in a scam. The guilt consumed her, but during a live coaching session, something shifted. Through The unSTUCK Method® and the power of pausing, she found self-forgiveness and a sense of peace. Tune in to hear her inspiring journey—and how you, too, can release guilt and move forward. www.shiragura.com

This month on the You Can Handle Anything podcast, we’re diving into the emotion of guilt—where it shows up, how it impacts us, and how to get unstuck from it. In this week’s episode, I share two personal stories where guilt showed up in different ways: one self-imposed and the other triggered by someone else’s comment. You’ll hear how I used The unS.T.U.C.K. Method® to shift my perspective and move forward with clarity and confidence. Tune in to explore how guilt doesn’t have to control your life and discover practical takeaways to live with more ease. www.shiragura.com

Have you ever reacted in the heat of the moment, only to be left with a mix of resentment and guilt afterward, unsure of how to move forward? In this week’s episode, hear how my student, Lena, faced a similar situation and found a way to turn it around. Her story is a powerful reminder that change is possible, even in those tough emotional moments. Tune in for inspiration and practical insights! www.shiragura.com

This week’s episode kicks off 2025 with a timely discussion about letting go of guilt. After taking a short break from the podcast in December, I share my personal experience with guilt and reflect on how it can weigh us down when we let it linger. Guilt isn’t about what happened but what we think about what happened, and shifting our perspective can help us release it. Tune in to explore how to approach guilt with kindness and set the tone for a lighter, more intentional year ahead. www.shiragura.com

How comfortable are you with silence in your conversations? In this episode, discover two fascinating stories about the power of silence—one from a mother navigating phone conversations with her adult daughter, and another from a professional handling a challenging work conversation. Learn why silence often makes us uncomfortable and how learning to sit with it can transform your life and relationships. Click here to join my free workshop on letting go of stuck emotions.

Have you ever avoided an event because you knew THAT person would be there—someone you had a falling out with, someone who rejected you? In this episode, hear how one of my newest students faced her fears of attending an event where she might encounter someone who had completely cut her off. Discover what happened when she chose to go anyway, armed with new tools and perspectives, and learn the surprising insight she gained about assuming what others think. This powerful story demonstrates how transformational moments can happen when we're willing to face our uncomfortable feelings head-on. Join our supportive community to learn how to navigate your own challenging relationships with confidence. Click here to get started: www.shiragura.com

Have you ever worried about what others might think of you? Whether it's showing up underdressed to an event, making an unconventional choice, or standing out in a crowd—these moments can feel incredibly uncomfortable. In this week's episode, tune in to hear how one of my students navigated an awkward moment like that and discover what's possible when you choose growth over comfort. Plus, I'm sharing some exciting changes coming to the podcast as we approach episode #400! Tune in now. Click here to join our supportive community to share your own journey and get personal guidance on handling life's uncomfortable moments.

Are you feeling anxious about tomorrow's election and how it might impact your relationships with family and friends who view things differently? In this timely episode, I share insights on preparing yourself emotionally for the election results—whatever they may be. Learn how to stay true to yourself while maintaining important relationships, and discover the powerful question most people forget to ask themselves during challenging times. Plus, find out how our community can support you through any post-election difficulties you might face. www.shiragura.com

Ever catch yourself overthinking what others might think of your choices? In this episode, I open up about my own struggles with external validation, from skipping my first podcast episode in 5 years to making authentic decisions while writing my book "Getting unSTUCK." I'll explore why we often give too much weight to others' opinions and how it can hold us back from living our most authentic lives. Plus, I'll share practical strategies to help you trust your own judgment and make decisions that truly align with your values. Join me for this honest conversation about breaking free from the approval-seeking cycle – because you deserve to live life on your own terms. Ready to dig deeper? Come work through these challenges with me in our live weekly coaching calls inside The unSTUCK Method program! www.shiragura.com

Do you ever get frustrated when things don't go as planned, especially when you're hoping for something simple, like having a meal together with your family? I recently had one of those moments. After fasting for Yom Kippur, I had this picture-perfect idea of breaking the fast with my family around the dinner table. But as I walked home from prayer services, I started to fume, convinced that they’d already started eating without me. Instead of letting the frustration boil over, I used a tool I created called The CLEAR Way, which helped me prepare for whatever I might walk into. And I’m so glad I did, because when I got home, my boys were sitting at the kitchen island, already eating! 😤 But because I had mentally prepared myself, I calmly asked if they’d like to sit down at the table with me. And guess what? They did. It wasn’t perfect, but it didn’t turn into a drama. I didn’t get mad, I didn’t hold a grudge—and that made all the difference. Handling unmet expectations without spiraling into frustration is possible for all of us. It just takes some practice and the right tools. 🎯 I share the full story in this week’s podcast. Tune in now! Click here to start your free trial for The unSTUCK Method program.

Do you ever get annoyed by those little things people do that just grate on your nerves? 🙃 Maybe it’s someone chewing loudly, leaving dirty dishes in the sink, or texting during a conversation. Those are called pet peeves, and we all have them. I’ve been thinking about mine lately—especially when it comes to my husband. One of my big ones? When he answers for other people like he knows what they’re thinking! 😤 The other night, it happened again at dinner, and I felt that familiar frustration creeping up. But instead of letting it ruin the evening, I used The unSTUCK Method to help me process my emotions and move on—without causing unnecessary drama. The truth is, pet peeves often say more about us than the other person. They stem from our preferences or sensitivities, and how we choose to react is really our responsibility. In this week’s episode of the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast, I share the full story and how you can manage your reactions to those everyday annoyances. You don’t want to miss it! 🎧✨ Tune in and see how you can get unstuck from your own pet peeves. Shira 💛 P.S. Pet peeves may never go away, but how we handle them can change everything! www.shiragura.com

I wanted to share something unexpected that happened just a few hours ago while recording this week's episode of the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast. The theme of today's episode was drama, and life certainly delivered. As I was recording, Iran began launching ballistic missiles at Israel, triggering sirens that sent us rushing to our safe rooms. In the rush, I dropped the mic but forgot to pause the recording. When it was safe to return, I discovered the recording was still running. I've decided to keep this part in the episode to keep things authentic and real. Please be aware that you'll hear this interruption around minute 7 or 8 of the episode. I share this not only to prepare you but to reflect on how crucial it is for us to manage our responses, especially in unexpected and challenging times. Wishing us all peace and safety, and the strength to get unstuck, even in the toughest moments. Love, Shira P.S. Imagine how much better our world could be if everyone knew how to use the tools to handle anything life throws our way. www.shiragura.com

Ever wished you could hit a "reset" button on a conversation gone wrong? 🔄 I sure have! This week on the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast, I'm diving into the concept of a "do over" and sharing a personal story that might just change the way you approach misunderstandings. A couple of weeks ago, a simple misunderstanding about a dentist appointment spiraled into unnecessary frustration between me and my husband. Instead of letting it ruin our day, I proposed a "do over" – literally reenacting the conversation to see if we could handle it differently. 😲 Curious to see how it turned out? Click here to tune into this week's episode and discover the power of resetting your reactions. You might just find yourself inspired to press "reset" the next time a conversation doesn't go as planned! www.shiragura.com

This week on the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast, we're exploring the transformative power of self-reflection. I've been emphasizing how taking a moment to pause and consider our actions and thoughts can significantly impact our personal growth and awareness. 🤔 In line with this theme, I'm excited to share a special episode featuring Jamie, a valued member of one of my communities. Jamie has graciously allowed us to delve into her journey of self-reflection and the profound changes it has brought to her life. 🌱 Tune in to hear Jamie's story and discover how you, too, can harness the power of self-reflection to foster growth and make more mindful choices in life. www.shiragura.com

Ever find yourself on the brink of a kitchen squabble over something as simple as boiling eggs? That happened to me recently, and it turned into an unexpected lesson in managing frustrations and choosing my battles. In the midst of me boiling some eggs, my husband came in out of nowhere and decided to switch pots to save energy—a small action that unexpectedly sparked a big internal reaction from me. I'm curious - would this have annoyed you? How do you think you would have reacted? Tune in to this week's "You Can Handle Anything" podcast to hear how I handle this very irritating situation with the help of The unSTUCK Method. www.shiragura.com

This week's episode of the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast will be different. After the heart-wrenching news of the execution of six hostages in Israel, including Hersh Goldberg-Polin, a friend of friends, I found myself deeply affected. In light of this, I invite you to join me in taking a moment to pause—a stop that feels necessary right now, not just for me but perhaps for many of us. 🌍 In this episode, I share some music I've recently created, intended to accompany our moment of reflection. Thank you for your understanding, and I look forward to reconnecting with you next week. www.shiragura.com

In this episode, I talk about living from possibility. Living from possibility means envisioning a better reality and actively shaping interactions to be more positive. It's about seeing past the cycle of negative experiences and using proactive communication to transform relationships. Embracing this approach can lead to more fulfilling connections, helping you move from conflict to harmony with confidence and ease. www.shiragura.com