How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast

Moving to a new city can feel like hitting the reset button—new streets to explore, new friends to make, and a whole new dating scene to figure out. In this throwback episode (originally aired 6.15.16, Ep. 67), Marni and Kristen talk with east-coast transplant PJ about how to rebuild your social life, boost your confidence, and navigate dating when you’re starting from scratch. We also dive into: The challenges of dating in a brand-new city How to create your own social circle from the ground up Building confidence and finding comfort in unfamiliar places >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠⁠

This week, we’re bringing you a throwback episode that’s just as valuable today as when it first aired. We sat down with Abby — a hot, young, single twenty-something — to get the unfiltered inside scoop on what dating in your 20s is really like. From the shifts COVID created in the dating landscape to what’s stayed exactly the same, Abby pulls back the curtain on what works, what fails, and how to approach with confidence. She even shares what makes her (and her friends) take notice when a guy walks in — spoiler: a killer smile still wins the day. >>>Join Kristen along with the founder of Limitless Brave for an in-person workshop in LA September 27th and 28th. >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! Get them here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this bonus episode of How to Get the Girl, Kristen sits down with Dave Stultz from Limitless Brave to talk about something that can completely shift your dating life: the power of working with a coach in person. We break down why nothing compares to the energy of being in the room, where body language, presence, and confidence can be seen, felt, and fine-tuned in real time. You’ll hear why workshops create an environment where skills stick faster, nerves get rewired into confidence, and accountability goes through the roof. And here’s the big news: Dave and Kristen are hosting a live in-person workshop in Los Angeles this weekend, September 27th & 28th. If you’ve ever considered coaching, this is the chance you don’t want to miss. It would behoove you in more ways than one to be there because there’s simply nothing like learning face-to-face. Seats for the intensive are very limited so if you'd like to be part of it, sign up below ASAP! >>> To join the Intensive, sign up HERE >>> To join for the Day 1 Seminar, up here HERE

This episode is anything but a lecture. In fact, we kick things off with a totally candid 10-minute conversation between me, Kristen, and our guest Dr. Kayte about our own porn patterns - genres, likes, dislikes - proving that yes, we ALL watch porn. From there, Dr. Kayte breaks down what’s actually healthy versus harmful when it comes to porn, plus what’s real and what’s pure camera trickery that should never, ever be tried in real life. We also dive into Dr. Kayte’s own dating life as a woman in her mid-30s, where she shares surprising insecurities that so many women in that stage of life can relate to. Even if you’re a woman listening, you’re going to love this one. In this episode, we also overanalyze and unpack: The best questions to ask on dates to instantly put your date at ease What to avoid saying to women when you’re on a date How excessive porn can absolutely kill your real-life sex life The traits women secretly find attractive (that will probably surprise you) ...and so much more. >>>Join Kristen along with the founder of Limitless Brave for an in-person workshop in LA September 27th and 28th. >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! Get them here: ⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2⁠⁠ >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠⁠

Dating at 49 isn’t about playing games — it’s about knowing who you are, what you want, and not being afraid to say it out loud. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Rachel Birch, host of the award-winning podcast Love Before 100. Freshly divorced and unapologetically back in the dating scene, Rachel opens up about what she’s looking for, what turns her on, and the mindset of a sophisticated, strong woman who’s not settling for less. We dive into attraction, desire, confidence, and the little things that make a big difference when dating a woman who truly knows herself. If you’ve ever wanted a window into the mind of an empowered, grown-up woman navigating modern dating — this conversation is it. >>>Join Kristen along with the founder of Limitless Brave for an in-person workshop in Los Angeles September 27th and 28th. >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! Get them here: ⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1⁠ ⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2⁠ >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠

When it comes to men’s health, your penis might be saying more than you think. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin — physician, innovator, and creator of the world’s first smart penis ring — to talk about not erectile dysfunction, but erectile fitness. Dr. Justin shares why sexual health is more than performance — it’s a vital indicator of your overall well-being. We dig into the critical need for data-driven solutions in medicine, how technology is changing the game for men’s health, and why paying attention to your erections could literally save your life. He also opens up about keeping intimacy alive with his wife of decades — proving that long-term relationships don’t have to mean long-term boredom in the bedroom. If you’ve ever wondered what your erections reveal about your health (and your love life), this is a conversation you don’t want to miss. >>>Join Kristen for an in-person workshop in Los Angeles September 27th and 28th! >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! Get them here: ⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1⁠ ⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2⁠ >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠

Communication is the foundation of every great relationship, but for so many people, it’s also the biggest struggle. In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Tabachnick, founder of Social Foundations, a supportive community dedicated to helping people build social awareness, abilities, and confidence. While Social Foundations focuses on individuals navigating life on the autism spectrum, Suzanne’s insights are valuable for anyone who wants to strengthen their communication skills and form deeper connections, leading to chemistry and romance. We dive into the essentials of effective communication in dating and relationships: how to notice the areas where you might be falling short, what habits could be holding you back, and practical steps you can take to improve. Whether you’ve struggled to express yourself, misread signals, or just want to become more confident in connecting with others, this conversation will help you level up your ability to bond, attract, and sustain meaningful relationships. >>>Join Kristen along with the founder of Limitless Brave and surprise guest for an in-person workshop in Los Angeles September 27th and 28th. >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1 https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2 >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠

How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether? In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit. We dive into the signals women give that tell you she’s interested, HOW TO SPOT when you’re pushing too far, and the difference between persistence and pressure. Tanya brings her eye for human behavior from years in casting to reveal what women are really communicating, often without saying a word. Whether you struggle to make the first move or aren’t sure when to step back, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to pursue women the right way. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠

This week, is a serious DON'T MISS. We sit down with Erin Keating, creator of the brand and podcast Hotter Than Ever, dedicated to dating over 50, to reveal the unfiltered truths men need to hear. While Erin’s show focuses on dating later in life, the insights she shares apply to any man looking to attract and connect with women. Erin is no-holds-barred, authentic, and tells it exactly like it is- no fluff, no sugarcoating. We cover the biggest online dating mistakes guys of every age make, how to actually get her to say yes to a date, and what instantly makes a woman give you a chance (or swipe left) on an app. Packed with insider perspectives straight from a woman’s mind, this episode is your playbook for standing out, making REAL connections, and turning matches into real-life dates.

This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women—so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some). In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne, Marni’s personal coach, to talk about one of the trickiest topics for men: how to share your vulnerabilities without coming off as self-deprecating, weak, or like you’re making excuses for who you are. Adam breaks down how to own your truth, express emotion, and connect deeply with women—without ever losing your edge. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or just trying to get better at opening up, this conversation is a must-listen as it’s Insightful, honest, and practical, as always! >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty

In this throwback episode, we get all too relatable talking about making a bad first impression. Made a weird joke? Came on too strong? Forgot how to speak English the second she looked at you? We’ve all been there—and this week, we’re talking about how to come back from a cringey first impression without losing the girl (or your dignity). Comedian and crowd-reading master K.T. Tatara joins Kristen to break down what actually kills a first impression and more importantly, how to recover with grace, humor, and a little self-awareness. They dig into: The difference between awkward and unrecoverable Why trying to “over-fix” makes it worse How to use self-deprecation strategically The power of naming the weird energy in the room When to own it, when to pivot, and when to walk away Whether you’ve bombed a banter opener or said something that made her eyebrows do the thing… this episode is your crash course in bouncing back.

We’re throwing it back to one of our most downloaded episodes with none other than Alpha M, the #1 men’s lifestyle influencer, Aaron Marino. In this conversation, we unpack the truth about confidence: where it actually comes from, why most guys fake it wrong, and how to build the kind of self-assurance that women feel before you even say a word. We dive into: Why confidence has nothing to do with arrogance The grooming/style habits that change how you feel, not just how you look How small wins (not big achievements) create real swagger What to do when you're spiraling in self-doubt Why the “get out of your comfort zone” cliché still works—and how to do it without burning out This one’s packed with clarity, no fluff, and high-impact takeaways for any guy ready to stop overthinking and start showing up like a man who knows his worth. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you struggle to read women, constantly misinterpret signals, or feel like there’s a disconnect no matter how hard you try, this episode is for you. We’re joined by Empathetic Leadership Coach Jevon Wooden to unpack the power of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) and why it’s the missing link for so many men when it comes to connection, attraction, and trust. We break down how emotional intelligence helps you actually understand what a woman is feeling, how to respond in a way that makes her feel safe, and why it’s the antidote to being seen as a “trauma dumper.” You’ll learn how to: getting This one’s packed with gems, so you gotta listen. >>> Get Mindsets and Emotional Intelligence Insights from Jevon Wooden ⁠HERE⁠ >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of How to Get the Girl (formerly known as Ask Women), Kristen and Marni are joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Tina Shermer to tackle one of the biggest silent confidence-killers for men: sexual shame. Whether it’s shame around performance, desire, past experiences, or just not knowing what’s “normal,” this shame often goes unspoken — but it’s sabotaging your confidence, your connection with women, and your ability to feel powerful in your own skin. Dr. Shermer breaks down where this shame comes from, how to reframe it, and what to do right now to stop letting it control your dating life. This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever felt like your anxiety in dating or sex is coming from something deeper… because chances are, it is. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎙️ Heads up! We’re playing around with new titles for the show! Right now, we’re rolling with "How to Get the Girl" by Ask Women, but stay tuned for another possible rebrand 👀 This week, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood emotions in dating: jealousy. And no, it’s not always toxic. In fact, if you know how to use it, it can be one of the most powerful tools for increasing attraction, creating sexual tension, and deepening connection. We’re joined by Ally Iseman from Passport2Pleasure.com, and she’s breaking down how to harness jealousy in a healthy way - whether you’re navigating early dating, a committed relationship, or just trying to spark that “charge” back into your love life. We talk about: What jealousy is really telling you How to use it to create playful intrigue Why avoiding jealousy kills desire And how to stay grounded (not needy) while using it to your advantage If you’ve ever felt triggered, anxious, or powerless in the face of jealousy, this episode will flip the script—and help you turn it into fuel for connection instead. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

It’s time to STOP sabotaging yourself—and start asking for what you actually want. This week, we’re joined by Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a powerhouse salesman who knows how to close deals and create clarity. Brad breaks down the exact mindset shift that will help you stop playing small, speak up, and go after what you truly want—not just in dating, but in life. We also dig into why so many people don’t even know what they want, and how to finally get clear so you can confidently ask for it (and get it). If you’ve ever held back, talked yourself out of something, or waited too long, this episode is your wake-up call. www.braddemint.com >>> Become the most magnetic version of yourself . Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

This week, Marni is joined by the one and only Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, for a no-holds-barred conversation all about the penis. From performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction, we’re breaking down the most common issues men face in the bedroom—and why it’s not just “in your head.” Susan shares expert insights on what actually causes ED, how to regain confidence and sensitivity, and why the porn you’re watching might be sabotaging your sex life. Plus, we get into what women really want when it comes to intimacy—and spoiler: it’s not about being a porn star. If you've ever felt insecure about getting or staying hard—or just want to up your bedroom game—this is the episode you didn’t know you needed. Susan's resources: PumpingGuide.com PumpsWork.com BetterLover.com Meet Susan: Instagram.com/susanbratton >>> Become the most magnetic version of yourself . Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

This week, Marni and Kristen break down the jaw-dropping style moments from a men's networking event — where the men weren’t just dressed well... they were dressed like MEN. Smart. Sophisticated. And undeniably sexy. The ladies dive into: HOW to dress in a way that makes her stop mid-sentence WHY certain looks make women feel giddy and drawn in WHAT it takes to turn the sidewalk into your personal runway Because here’s the truth: how you dress tells the world how you treat yourself — with confidence, pride, and respect. And when you carry yourself like that, the world (and women) respond in kind. Style isn’t just fabric. It’s your first impression, your silent introduction, and a powerful tool in attraction. Don’t miss this one. >>> Become the most magnetic version of yourself with fully transformative coaching. Consult with Kristen directly here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Kristen and Marni are joined by special guest Kelly Tao, one of Marne’s original wing girls, for a powerful conversation on confidence—how to access the confidence already within you, how to keep it consistent, and how to let it multiply. They also get real about age gaps in dating—and share their personal preferences about WHY dating older men can be desirable and WHY dating younger/the same age range can also be desirable so you have a better idea of what make you and your age-range appealing. It’s honest, insightful, and full of practical tips to help you show up with more confidence and connection in your dating life. >>> Become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself. Book a free call with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self. Spencer breaks down how unconscious language patterns fuel anxiety and resistance—and then flips the script with a live, on-air language coaching demo with Marni. Watch (okay, listen!) as he rewires her inner dialogue in real time to eliminate approach anxiety using easy, practical shifts you can apply today. This isn't just theory—it's transformation you can hear. If you've ever struggled with self-talk that kills your vibe before you even say hello, you need this episode in your ears. 🔥 Tune in to learn: The secret power of precise language How to eliminate approach anxiety through word choice Real-time mindset rewiring in action This one’s a game changer. >>> Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Book a free call with Kristen here: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠