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Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Focus On The Family

If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.

Location:

Colorado Springs, CO

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If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.

Language:

English

Contact:

Focus on the Family Colorado Springs, CO 80995 1-800-232-6459


Episodes
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Praying Through the Tougher Times

4/27/2026
Prayer is one of the key ingredients to helping you experience a deeper relationship with your mate. Kathi Lipp joins Jim Daly to discuss the difference prayer can make in your marriage. Also, Erin Smalley shares about couples she's seen persevere through serious challenges by relying on God. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Praying God’s Word for Your Life for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Bringing Purpose and Power to Your Prayer Life Counseling Consultation and Referrals Learning from the Prayer Life of Jesus Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:09:19

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If You Aren’t Doing Well Spiritually

4/22/2026
Most couples go through a season where you're not connecting like you want. Erin Smalley addresses how spiritual connection matters, and that a lot of couples are struggling in this area. Plus, Jim Daly and Debra Fileta give some thoughts for getting on the same page spiritually again. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Love in Every Season for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage Counseling Consultation and Referrals Conversation Starters for Date Nights Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:11:03

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Keeping Attraction Alive

4/20/2026
When you fell in love, was it love at first sight, or did attraction grow with time? Jim Daly and Debra Fileta address how a person can fall in love with their mate, and enjoy the spring season of marriage. Also, Erin and Greg Smalley will address why taking care of yourself is good for your relationship Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Love in Every Season for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing? God’s Plan for Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:11:13

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Are You Facing Spiritual Warfare?

4/15/2026
How do you know if you're facing spiritual warfare? Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and his wife Noreen joined Jim Daly to discuss 5 real signs that you're actually under a spiritual attack. Also, Greg and Erin open up about times they persevered when they tempted to be discouraged. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Defending Your Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored The Spiritual Battle for Your Marriage Counseling Consultation and Referrals Is This a Spiritual Attack, or Is My Spouse Just a Jerk? Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:13:25

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Financial Unity Honors God

4/13/2026
If you're not on the same page financially, please know, you aren't the only couple facing that tension. Greg Smalley shares how many couples actually have a serious disagreement regarding finances. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn about how you can get on the same page with money. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Thriving in Love and Money for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Game Changing Marriage and Money Insights End Daily Disagreements About Money Money Choices That Couples Need to Make in Every Season of Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:13:24

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You’re Not Your Spouse’s Holy Spirit

4/8/2026
What if you took a second to pray for your spouse before criticizing him or her? Jim Daly joins Ron and Deb DeArmond on why you cannot be your spouse's Holy Spirit. They also tell a beautiful story of how Ron proposed to her again decades after they'd gotten married. Then, Erin explains why it's good to remind your mate, "you're still the one." Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book I Choose You Today for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Making Daily Choices to Love Your Spouse Choosing to Love Your Spouse Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:08:56

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Starting with Prayer

4/6/2026
How do you and your spouse pray together? Greg and Erin Smalley open up about what Bible verses they pray over each other. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with Ryan and Selena Frederick on how The Lord's Prayer from the New Testament can be a good prayer outline for you and your spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book 40 Prayers for My Spouse Bundle for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Making Prayer a Priority in Your Marriage What Research Says About Couples Who Pray Together How Prayer Can Lead to Deeper Intimacy in Your Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:09:40

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4 Big Decisions

4/1/2026
What if a small choice could have a tremendous impact on your marriage? Jim Daly has a conversation with Arlene Pellicane on 4 choices you can make to have a better relationship. At the end, Greg and Erin will give some thoughts on how to have fun together. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Making Marriage Easier for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Four Key Decisions for Loving Your Spouse for Life Three Ways to Invest in Your Marriage (and Have Fun Along the Way) Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:13:29

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Take Time to Talk

3/31/2026
Is there a certain amount of time that you have to spend with your spouse on a daily basis? Greg Smalley gives some research-backed information on the right amount of time couples should talk to each other. Also, Jim Daly asks Trey and Lea Morgan about making time together a priority. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book 10 Ways to a Stronger Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Secrets to a Strong and Happy Marriage Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Counseling Consultation and Referrals Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:12:50

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Don’t Settle for Control or Manipulation

3/26/2026
We all have times of conflict, but what if it feels like your spouse is being controlling or manipulative? Jim Daly talks with Dr. Ron Welch and his wife Jan, who overcame control issues in their own marriage. Plus, John and Erin share how to know if you're truly being the best spouse you can be. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Controlling Husband for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How to Deal With a Controlling Spouse Contact our Counseling Team The Benefits of Losing Control in Your Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:09:42

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Don’t Pretend, Move Forward

3/24/2026
Does it feel hard to forgive your spouse when he or she has hurt you? Jim Daly joins Dr. Randy Schroeder to explain why forgiving your mate is necessary for a healthy marriage. Then, John and Greg will encourage you to focus on small improvement points you can make as a couple. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Simple Habits for Marital Happiness for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How to Break Bad Habits and Cultivate a Healthy Marriage How to Forgive Your Spouse When It’s Not Easy Contact our Counseling Team Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:12:40

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“What I’m Hearing You Say Is …”

3/19/2026
We've all had moments where we misunderstood our spouse. Greg opens up about some of the ways he's not understood things Erin has said. Then, Jim Daly joins Rob and Gina Flood, who give some practical ways you can clarify a miscommunication with your mate. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book With These Words for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Better Ways to Communicate With Your Spouse Contact our Counseling Team Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:11:04

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3 Questions to Make Your Marriage Better

3/17/2026
It's easy to play blame-games in your marriage, but it's better to ask yourself some hard questions. Greg Smalley opens up about some times where he got honest with himself. Then, Dr. Gary Chapman joins Jim Daly to share how three questions can help you have a more Christ-like attitude in your marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Finding New Ways to Thrive in Your Marriage Contact our Counseling Team Navigating Marriage Expectations When Marriage Isn’t How You Thought It Would Be Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:11:47

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When a Wife Encourages Her Man

3/12/2026
One of the most powerful things a wife can do is encourage her husband. Ann Wilson and her husband Dave talk to Jim Daly about a time where she chose to speak words of life into Dave's heart. Also, Greg opens up about how meaningful it is when Erin encourages him. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book How to Speak Life to Your Husband for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Revive Your Marriage By Becoming Your Husband’s Biggest Cheerleader Contact our Counseling Team How to Stop Complaining and Be an Encouraging Spouse Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:14:01

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Laugh When Things Go Wrong

3/10/2026
When was the last time you and your spouse laughed at something? Ted Cunningham sits down with Jim Daly to share a few times he and his wife Amy have found reasons to laugh together. You'll also hear from Greg and Erin about how they've learned to find reasons to laugh amidst a very busy season. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book A Love That Laughs for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Bringing Laughter to Your Marriage Humor in Marriage Having Fun in Your Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:12:32

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“What Happened to the Person I Married?”

3/5/2026
Most couples go through a tough season where you wonder, "What happened to the honeymoon phase?" Greg Smalley shares some statistics on how many couples are actually struggling today. Also, Jim Daly speaks with Jay Payleitner on how he's helped couples who've drifted from each other. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book 52 Things Wives Need From Their Husbands for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Practical Ideas for Loving Your Wife 6 Tools for Healthy Communication in Marriage New Focus on the Family Report: Marriage Health in America Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:12:24

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Overcome Loneliness by Talking

3/3/2026
We're living in a lonely generation today. Dr. Heather Holleman and her husband Ashley join Jim Daly to address the dangers of isolation and how to form warm connections. Then, John asks Erin Smalley about how you can reconnect with your spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Six Conversations for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How To Have Meaningful Conversations With Your Spouse Conversation Starters for Couples Contact our Counseling Team Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:11:08

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Let Go of Control, Open Your Heart

2/26/2026
Being successful in marriage sometimes looks like letting go of unrealistic expectations and striving for real connection. Rebecca St. James and Cubbie Fink talk with Jim Daly about a few adjustments they made in their own communication. Also, Greg and Erin provide some hope for husbands who struggle to connect with a really emotional wife. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Lasting Ever: Faith, Music, Family, and Being Found by True Love for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Finding God's Love in Marriage and Life Unsung Hero Official Lionsgate Website Contact our Counseling Team Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:11:09

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When He Popped the Question

2/24/2026
What was the moment like when you got engaged? Greg and Erin Smalley tell the story of when he asked Erin to marry him. Then, Jim Daly talks to Rebecca St. James and her husband Cubbie on how he popped the question on a wintry night in Nashville Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Lasting Ever: Faith, Music, Family, and Being Found by True Love for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Finding God's Love in Marriage and Life Unsung Hero Official Lionsgate Website Leave us a Comment Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:13:46

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“Let’s Not Talk Now”

2/19/2026
One of the best lessons in marriage is that you don't have to solve everything this very moment. Sometimes, it's best to take a deep breath. Jim Daly and his wife Jean talk to the Smalley's about why slowing down can help bring the tension down when you're upset at your mate. Also, Erin will give you some pointers for how to make things right if you haven't been treating your spouse well. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Healthy Marriage Devotional for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Five Ways to Grow Closer as a Couple Hope Restored Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Duration:00:11:19